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One of the perks of being
Editor is the ability to spout off when the mood hits me. It has
hit me now! I'm tired. Tired of uppity submissives and omnipotent
dominants who feel that they are practicing the 'one true way'
of doing things and of conducting themselves and if the rest of
us lowly kinksters wish to be worthy we must follow their pristine
example. BAH!
Masters and dominants run around mentoring newbies to the 'ways'
of BDSM (groan), the 'right' way to do this and that, the people
to be 'warned' against, the groups that you shouldn't go near.
Submissives speak with syrupy politeness and then turn around
and stab each other in the back with the innocence of a viper.
Give me a break.
Individual 'leaders' attack other leaders, their jealousy and
insecurity far surpassing any sense of fair play that might have
once graced their brain. Paranoia runs rampant, and people are
taking things on a personal level that had nothing to do with
them in the first place, hence increasing the animosity in various
communities (both online and off).
Communities are at war with each other, both internally and externally
as various factions strive to be the biggest, fastest, and most
righteous. And all the while EVERYBODY moans and groans about
the degeneration of protocol and integrity that has eroded BDSM
since the inception of the Internet. As if the kink community
must stay entrenched in the 'old ways' and shouldn't dare to evolve
the way any other community does.
We are not one big community;
we haven't been for years. We are a culture, with a set of basic
principles that we share. Much like a shared religion or nationality
we are a group of people with some common ground that chooses
to celebrate our beliefs in a million different ways. One is not
better or worse than the other folks. We are individuals, who
are allowed individual expression. We are evolving, moving forward,
changing with the times. Accept it. Accept your neighbor. You
are under no obligation to follow their ways but they are under
no obligation to follow yours either.
It's time for the members
of the BDSM culture to grow up and accept that if we continue
to battle between ourselves we are never going to find acceptance
outside our little world. If we can't accept each other, why should
the rest of the world accept us? And isn't that what we all really
want? To be able to walk the streets without hiding who we are?
Nuff said!
Something I'm proud of is how The Dominant's View offers such
a high caliber of information to member of the BDSM culture at
large. We get bigger every issue and more people read us every
issue. However, our success is also our albatross and we find
we can no longer get free hosting. Throughout the zine you will
find buttons asking for donations, we need them to keep TDV alive.
Please, if you have a spare $5, consider sending it our way. We'll
be moving to a new server this month and will have to start paying
to keep the site up. For now the money will come from my own rather
empty pocket, and I'm not sure how long I can keep that up. In
the meantime I'll be attempting to generate cash flow through
paid advertising and affiliate programs. Any and all help from
you, dear reader, will be greatly appreciated.
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On to bigger and better things - like this issue of TDV. We're
packed with goodies again to keep the discriminating dominant
in food for thought and various tips and tricks. Our
dungeon has a little bit for everybody this issue including
plans for a Horse and flogging basics and a wonderful list of
pervertables.
Truth and beauty, our personal perceptions that draw us to our
kink, Virgo discusses Aesthetics and BDSM. Our
Features section contains many personal views, from coming
out to your family to one master's view on slavery, submission
and control.
Do you love to leave marks upon your submissive? But your submissive
doesn't like pain so the marks are few and far between? Check
out Sub Missives, hear one
submissive's way of dealing with this problem.
We have delicious erotica
from Echous and Lizbeth Dusseau as well as a wonderful variety
of poetry that is beyond normal 'Ode to a Master' topic seen in
most venues. Our BDSM Art
and our Amateur Photography
pages will fill your eyes with beautiful women as we show Krysztof
Nemeth's art and Sir Charles' images.
As has come to be our standard, there's more in Issue 23 than
we are able to mention. Please, grab yourself a cup of Java or
your beverage of choice and enjoy The Dominant's View. Your feedback
is always welcome in our Forum or via email to the individual
contributors or myself.
All the best in 2004!
Kayla Kuffs
Editor
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