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There are times when I'm
so 'in my head' about BDSM that I forget I'm navigating in the
vanilla world most of the time. They say men think about sex every
20 seconds, well for me, it's BDSM at about the same frequency.
In discussion with vanilla friends one day, we were speaking of
a couple who'd been arguing, she was drunk and he was fed up.
He finally threw her on the bed, tied her hands behind her back
and her ankles together. (he was trying to stop her from driving
- extreme and I don't recommend or approve of his actions, but
that's what happened). My girlfriend said something about him
hog-tying her. I nearly had to bite my tongue off to stop from
saying "OH that's not a hog tie!"
It's nothing for me to pipe up with a "yes sir" when my boss asks
me to do something for him. (oops!) And when talk at the office
moves towards spankings and bondage I stay silent. I don't DARE
say a word in case I say way-too-much!
We just got a Home Depot here not that long ago. I was over at
my domme friend's house and her oldest son was talking about putting
in applications for part time work. So what do I say? "Why not
go to Dom, er Home Depot?" My girlfriend gives me 'the look".
Her son didn't seem to notice. Whew!
Enough about me and my seemingly one-track mind. This issue brings
you some great articles and pictorials. We were fortunate to be
able to interview Lew Rubens and Maria Shadows this issue. Can
you say energy? Master Michael talks about how he runs his poly
family in a very honest and frank article. Check out our dungeon
to get an overview of fireplay by Master Guardian, if you have
ever wondered how, this is your opportunity to find out.
We're pleased to welcome a few new members to our TDV staff. Tygra
Forte is now our Fiction Editor, Sugar Masters an additional Contributing
Editor, Rick Umbaugh will be writing a column for us called Getting
Started which will focus on new dominants navigating the BDSM
scene. And last but certainly not least I'm relieved to have a
webmaster in Sweet_n_Evil Master, a funky dom geek who is taking
his 'sweet and evil' nick very seriously with every question I
bother him with. Stop by our "About Us" page to see the rich and
diverse backgrounds our staff bring to you each and every issue.
You'll notice the menu bar has been changed to include a few more
items for your reading pleasure, including a new seach feature
that will allow you to search our current issue as well as the
archives for specific pieces of information.
OH! How could I forget the best news of all? Effective this
issue, The Dominant's View will be published on a bi-monthly schedule.
This means you'll have fresh and exciting content from us every
two months. Look for Issue 23 Jan 1, 2004!
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All that and I'm only touching on a small percentage of what we
have going on in this issue. I hope you all find a little something
to enrich your kink.
I'd like to take this opportunity to wish everybody a joyous holiday
season from everybody here at The Dominant's View.
Happy Holidays!
Kayla Kuffs
Editor
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