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I think before I really write anything in this column,
article in nature, I need to introduce myself a little bit. I
am Narayanna. You probably gathered that from the title of the
column itself.
I have been told by many people that I have a rare way of expressing
my opinions and views. I think that translates to something along
the lines of 'rude, crude, and socially unacceptable' I am not
sure. I think that I will use this area to express my own very
useless and equally impressing opinions of whatever may cross
my mind at the time. I hope that you enjoy yourself, enjoy me,
and perhaps we can learn from each other a little bit.
Feel free to email me anytime at ladynarayanna@yahoo.com. Be aware
that by sending me an email you are giving me express permission
to use it here as I see fit (Disclaimer: I may be really nice,
or you might send me something that TICKS ME OFF and becomes the
subject of my next column - just warning you).
Now to settle into the subject of this issue's
tidbit.
Chat Rooms
I used to frequent a few rooms on irc.bondage.com and I used
to enjoy my on-line chatting time. However, I recently re-visited
that little realm and was faced with the memory of why I no
longer go there. I am now forced to pose these slightly awkward
questions to everyone:
Why is it that most people who are on-line have
NEVER played in real life? Why do people never bother to seek
training? I mean even if only for on line etiquette?
And for now the last:
Why is BDSM loosely translated to nothing more than mere kinky
sex?
There is a universe of difference between on-line BDSM and real
life BDSM.
In real life, if you were to make a submissive
wear nipple clamps, twisted tight until their nipples throb
with a bluish-purple tinge all day long, from the moment their
Dominant leaves for work until they return. They would need
serious painkillers, and they would in all probably have lost
the tips of their nipples. At the very least they would loose
some sensation permanently and suffer nerve damage.
If you are being hit with a cat-o-nine, I can bet you that you
will not be arching your back and moaning with pleasure. Especially
if the ends are adorned with small shards of glass and/or metal
scraps, as the Dominant uses their entire body weight behind
each lashing.
Holy Unrealistic, Batman!
I was also 'blessed' with several private messages from various
(and I use the term VERY loosely) submissives, that wanted to
offer themselves for my enjoyment. It went something along the
following lines (just one example of course):
Boyslut4u: please, mistress, use me. my *male anatomy
part here* is so hard that it almost hurts, I need your attention,
so bad!
Narayanna: Excuse Me? Do I know you? Did I give you permission
to, or request that you message Me? Since we both know the answers,
what makes you think that I would take time with a boy that
has absolutely NO respect or knowledge of proper protocol when
speaking to a Dominant? Now before you answer do us both a favor
and simply do not reply or attempt to continue the conversation
from this point. Please be well, and may you find all that you
search for.
Boyslut4u: Please, mistress, I need you.
I beg you, please! You re not really this much a bitch in real
life, are you?
Okay.. um..Yeah.
For anyone out there that may happen to see me on line and want
to stop in and say hello, I am a real picky wench. I will not
touch, nor allow another to touch sexually in anyway, unless
they wear my collar. So please do not fall to your knees before
me and beg for it.
If you are going to address me at
all, please do so with at the very LEAST capitalizing my name
and under no circumstances call me Mistress. Only My sub/slave
has the right to address me as such (of course if you have a
Gorean background I will not get upset as slaves are taught
that is how you address).
DO NOT private message me unless you have asked prior to said
msg within the room.
And then of course there is the whole 'walking up to a complete
stranger and begging for…anything, from them. For me to give
my attention to, much less anything else. A submissive must
first deserve my attention and have proven so. To prove this
to me, takes time. Invest the time and be patient.
I am sure that most other Dominants, that are
actual, real, off line Dominants feel the same way.
Mind you - on line there is a HUGE amount of people that log
on and want a specific type of sexual fantasy. If that is your
thing, then more power to ya, but at least listen when someone
tells you to leave them alone. I have nothing against the person
that logs online to enjoy that, I simply ask that they show
basic respect for others and their own choices.
Now, this can also open up a really funny thread of conversation
too. I would love it if people would send me snippets of conversations
that they have had with people on line that just can't seem
to understand realistic play!
I once watched a scene where a Dominant was thrusting his entire
hand, to the elbow, inside someone as he was 'fisting'. It was
all I could do to not jump in and begin mocking him, the scene,
and begin to explain what would happen to a person if you really
honestly did that.
I look forward to hearing form you!!
ladynarayanna @ yahoo.com
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