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how society looks upon BDSM. I personally am tired of being considered
unacceptable in society, and will not cover up what I believe in.
What I have found in
society is that BDSM is misunderstood. When talking to others
about the lifestyle, they usually just step back
and look at me shocked. As my appearance and mannerism would never
give any hint to them. I usually say, especially to the women, "Think
back, and honestly tell me if you have ever been slapped on the
ass by either a boyfriend or husband, or just someone you know.
Did you find it a pleasing feeling"? You would be amazed how
many tell me that it was.
So my response would be then, well that in it's self is a form
of BDSM, they then look at me in amazement. Like anything else,
there are different forms and levels of BDSM. Personally I do not
do extreme pain. BDSM varies from person to person, each take it
and adapted it to his or her own personal style.
So for those that do not want to accept what we are about, be
warned now. We are coming out. And if you not ready for us, that
is your problem not ours.
What we do is consensual between two adults; it is proven to enhance
the relationship between those that practice it.
Again these are my personal views.
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