S E X is a sin these days. Don’t have fun with it, don’t
enjoy it, don’t do it more than once a week at most and make
sure you don’t do it on a Sunday. Hide your perversions,
don’t tell anybody. The ‘family values’ police
will come knocking at your door to cleanse you of your sins (and
your computer and your money). The new eleventh commandment is
Thou shalt not enjoy sexual freedom. Hail the missionary position!!
Meanwhile, back in the livingroom, the television blares with
gunfire, terrified screams, dismemberments, murders, rapes, genocides,
child abductions and glorified pedophiles who want to get their
picture in the paper and THAT is only on the 6 o’clock news.
The stuff that comes on after 9 pm is worse. Yet, you best not
have sex instead of watching it, especially kinky sex – you
might turn into a murderous pervert.
Ummm excuse me? If all the dominants murder their submissives
who will they get to spank? And why would us submissive types
even consider involving ourselves CONSENSUALLY if there was so
great
a potential for us to be hurt? Us subs have a pretty good grapevine.
It doesn’t take long to identify the predators. They don’t
last too long in the kink culture.
But are predators really the problem here? Is it really violent
sex that is at issue or is it that we dare to be different and
enjoy ourselves in ways the rest can’t even imagine so we
should be punished because THEY don’t understand.
Sigh - it seems to be the way of things these days. Hopefully
websites like The Dominant’s View will still be around
in 5 years but there are days I have my doubts.
So while we’re still here I best let you know what we have
to offer this issue!
We are thrilled to have been able to interview
Joseph Bean. If
you don’t know who he is, you should find out. Read his
interview and get to know one of the very interesting and long
time members
of the BDSM Leather scene. And once you’re done you might
want to have look at the Feature Articles this month. David
M (2006 Mr Olympus) gives us an overview of Leather
titles and how they came about. The
Leather Prof discusses the conflicting feelings
of newbies to our culture. Rover
applauds a contestant at this
year’s Mr World Leather contest (fyi, he didn’t win
but hopefully his message will be pushed forward regardless).
Galen begins a series of articles on BDSM
and Dark Eros. What
does that mean? Check it out and see.
Sunny Tawse has popped in to guest host Mistress’s
Musings while we seek a permanent replacement for that column. Master
Nage talks about way to recognize predators in our culture. Rick
Umbaugh talks about sex!
We have a new columnist, David Lawrence, his column Fetish
Focus will be all about photography and how you can improve your personal
photos and how to get along in the photography business. He invites
you to write him with your questions so that he may address them
in upcoming issues.
Ciedre tells us about some traps she’s found
in being involved in a S/S/s relationship (switch/switch/sub).
Shadow
shares how she discovered what she thought was ownership and
what was REALLY ownership when her Master fought her battle for
her.
Billy tells us a little tale about a little incident at the San
Diego Gay Pride weekend this summer. Fact
or fiction – you
decide. KJPS Howe does what he does best, slams some and champions
others in With a Twist.
Jean Roberta reviews the book Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and
The Ordeal Path
by Raven Kaldera. And I offer up an piece of erotica
called The
Healing Bath, a
romantic piece that shows just how loving D/s can
be. Maybe some of the righteous right will read it – maybe?
Sigh – na.