She sees strength and domination in every man she meets online, convincing herself that he sees everything a man could ever want in her. She hides her eyes and gives her heart to a man with a dozen women already hooked on his old lines. When he really desires her, she leaves.

Both he and she have been here before and they will be here again. Neither is really looking for magic as both are in the game only for the ride. The destination only holds an interest in fantasy because the roles they play online can be too easily seen through in the light of day after day play and responsibility. In the real world of one on one interaction the outcome is discouraging to say the least.

They are the blood suckers of time and emotions, the wasters of dreams. The reasons others have difficulty finding their magic for belief in submissives and dominants is losing its strength. They are happy in their failures, for through these failures, they get sympathy and new victims.

Is it any wonder that many who are serious about the BDSM journey find a watered down pool of like-minded individuals to tinge their hopes with frustration and disbelief over time when the submissive of their fantasies shows the true colors of “do me”, even in real life interactions, so that domination proves itself to be no more than following the kinky script of the one professing the need to submit or when the dominant presents themselves in the real world as one who desires the responsibility of controlling another’s sexuality through guidance but over time displays little more than bullying tactics to get their own way?

Bullies show no less than their weaknesses and only they are fooled into believing others see this energy as anything other than uncertainty in their own confidence. There is no way to dress up this personality trait with the illusion of being the big bad Dom/me of immense power and no compromise.

"I am Queen/King. See me roar.", is as sure fire a a way to lose credibility as is as is, "I am super sub. See me submit to my script."

My short rant of the day!