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Loving the Strap-on

Using a strap-on is as much of a psychological experience as a physical sensation.

My submissive male asked me just this morning if I orgasm or not when I use his ass for my pleasure and if so if the orgasm is due to the physical stimulation I receive while thrusting or if it is psychological.

The reality is for me it is both.

From there I began to contemplate the different realities of strap-on play my way and for my pleasure.

Hence I share my reality with you in scene related ways:

To begin a scene with the sub on his (her to be inserted if you prefer) knees, collared and leashed and awaiting instructions in how to be a pleasing cock sucker can be an interesting diversion from the simple "on your back slut!"

Taking the hard black phallus in my hand I like to stroke it with a mean looking fist as my voice lowers with my expectations. Being explicit on what I expect in the worshipping of this tool of torment or pleasure. Locking eyes with him as my lips curl into a smile that can be read in any way. Seldom does it show softness yet the twinkle can take his breath away.

I pull firmly upon the leash, forcing the submissive to cover the short distance between us on his knees until I have directed his mouth over the cock with my hand on the back of his head and the leash tight in my grip. Telling him when to open his mouth, how to take me slowly and respectfully, deeply, softly and passionately. I teach him how to use his teeth in a delicate way, up and down the shaft. Explaining why the head needs special attention to please me. Directing him to worship this phallus with butterfly kisses and gentle licks as I torment him with the thought that this just might be training for the day I will insist he entertain me with the cock of a Dom in his slutty mouth.

The intake of his breath half in disbelief and half in an uneasy desire is a huge turn on for me. I read him like the open book he is and use all of his depravities against him for our mutual pleasure.

I expect perfection in every lesson I teach and will keep him sucking, kissing and licking until I see progress and reality in his obedience.

Scenario’s to consider:

I recline majestically upon the chaise lounge admiring my male submissive as he washes the dinner dishes in my kitchen. The slim contours of his naked body as he bends peacefully to the task he has been given give me ideas that make me smile.

Knowing how absorbed my boy becomes when he works at my direction I know any movements made by me will not be noticed.

I raise rose noiselessly and with the stealth of a silent tigress I enter my bedroom to begin the preparation for his surprise. I strip to a black satin garter belt and night shade nylons, leaving my 5" stiletto heeled Italian leather pumps on my small feet.

Leaning into the mirror I survey my reflection surreptitiously. Satisfied that not a hair is out of place I return to the game I wish to play.

Opening the drawer of the maple dresser I remove from its protection, the black dildo and strap on that will weaken my boy in the knees. In the back of my mind is the fact that he has never been subjected to its use. I know it is a fantasy that he has long desired to be subjected to my control in this manner. I also know fantasy and reality will lock horns this evening. Mistress Marlene

Stepping into the harness always fills me with a powerful feeling that can be matched by no other toy.

Adjusting the silicone cock so that it stands like a god at my disposal I take one last look at my image before turning and leaving the room.

I stand like a goddess who will not be denied my pleasure, observing my boy still lost in his task. "Do not turn around slave boy," I caution as I walk quickly to stand at his rear. My smile widens as I see him tense in anticipation of the unknown. One leather clad foot reaches out to spread his legs as my hand presses into the small of his back directing him to bend over the sink spread-eagled for my desires.

"Continue to wash the dishes my toy for your job is not yet complete and do not be foolish enough to break a dish," I coo silkily.

"Yes Mistress," he replies submissively as he tries to concentrate on my command.

I lubricate the black cock with the butter on the sideboard with the hand that did not hold my boy in his place. I spread his cheeks and he feels the slippery silicone taunt him with its impending invasion of his vulnerability.

"Are you ready to allow me the pleasure of taking you in this fashion or are you going to cause me to tie you to the table for my game? I ask in my husky whispery way.

"OMG Mistress, I am so confused," he pants half in anticipation, half in trepidation. “I would not consider denying you any pleasure my body can bring to you."

Mentally bracing himself for an assault upon his manhood the submissive tries consciously to continue washing the dishes as instructed by my domination.

Taking both of his slim hips into my strong hands I position him for penetration. Slowly and carefully I allow the head of the cock to pierce his ass. My boy moans at the pain he was not expecting and I keep still almost long enough for him to catch his breath before pulling him back to my captivity.

"You are owned property my toy and I will use you for my amusement as you serve me this night in the kitchen."

"Yes Ma'am," he moans.

I begin slow movements of my hips that give him a bump and grind sensation as I grind my body into his. Each movement is careful and cautious yet controlling as I take him to a new level of submission. His position is precarious as he fights to hold his balance while continuing to finish his chore.

I smiled to myself when he drops a glass back into the water. "Be careful my toy.”
I caution.

When his moans became moans of pleasure I reach around his body and take my cock into my hands…feeling his lust throbbing for release I withdraw from his ass and instruct him to take the glass from the sink and cum into it for my entertainment.

Always obedient and horny beyond belief my boy dips both hands back into the soapy water capturing the glass in slippery hands. “Turn around so that I may have the joy of watching you perform for me," I smile.

On command he turns and takes the beauty that is the cock I have claimed long ago into his strong hand. With each stroke he feels impending release crying for satisfaction. His eyes remained locked with mine awaiting my silent approval for the moment he craves so badly. I always know when he is almost beyond control... when that moment arrives he hears me say. "STOP!" he can't believe it. His knees shake as an almost painful emotion comes over his body so awash in the agony that has run rampant under my control.

"Begin again...long slowwwwww...torturess strokes will please your Mistress very much."

He closes his eyes trying with all his passion not to disappoint me this night. I can sense his tension in the tightness of his belly muscles and the agony in his breathing as I give the command...."CUM NOW!"

With a scream of pure pleasure that can not be denied my boy comes like never before filling the bottom of the soapy glass with the perfection of his fluid. "You have made me proud my boy and I adore you for it," I commented as I lovingly stroked his flushed cheeks. He falls to his knees and wraps his arms around my legs in exhaustion as I quietly stroked his head lovingly.

Such an easy scene...already set up by the day to day task of washing dishes!

A possible scenario for you...

Be dressed in a manner that pleases you when he gets home…BUT without the strap on! Build the play in stages for maximum impact.

You could hang the whip from a belt so that your hands are free later if you wish but it is not vital. Have him get naked immediately and cuff him....if you have a play collar...collar him as well.

Order him to have an enema (informing him that his ass is yours!) (Important, very important)...some times relaxing is impossible if either one of you are thinking of the embarrassment of a dirty cock leaving the scene... (Strap on cock). The use of the strap on can also cause a feeling like the bowels have to move so moving them first will ensure that is not what stops the experience.

While he is obeying pace a little so he can get the sense that you are impatient...slapping your hand from time to time with the crop as you ignore him.

When you know that he is fully occupied with the enema slip into the strap on and be waiting for him in a stance that looks confident and perhaps just a little bitchy. Order him to his knees and instruct him in the fact that he is now your little cock sucker and that he had better perform up to your impossible standards. Grab a handful of his hair firmly but gently and guide his mouth to the cock.

Instruct him how to service this cock in a way that amuses you.

If he is a good boy make him beg to be used anally...if his begging seems authentic you could bend him over a table or couch and slowly, with LOTS of lube, penetrate his ass. Do not forget the condom which you could in fact have him place upon the cock for further humiliation.

NOW…this I would not recommend unless you have been training him for some time with a butt plug...of course you can do the long slow finger stretches but if you are looking for a dynamic scene rather than just a butt fuck...

I cannot stress enough how important butt plug training is if you are going to REALLY enjoy using the strap on.

Mistress's Musings
Mistress Marlene is an International trainer of both Domination and submission. Her lifestyle takes her through Europe, Scandinavia, the USA and Canada. She has a collared and tattooed male slave who has been under her ownership since 1999.
A bi sexual Domme who is most pleased having several submissives under her thumb, she has just relocated to BC from Stockholm Sweden and now calls Victoria her home most of the year. She is very active in the BDSM communities of both Victoria andStockholm and is an active and proud member of the Sagacity organization. She is both a lifestyler and a Pro Domme. Visit her site at:
www.mistressmarlene.com.
Mistress Marlene, The Dominant's View