Do you use toys? If so, what is your favourite toy,
and why?
Yes and that depends on your definition of toy. Restraints are my
favorite accessory, bondage and dildo torture is a favorite game
of mine. So I really like complex vibrators and various insertables
in concert with tight bondage.
Do you believe in safe words and limits? What are your personal
limits?
Yes, my personal limits include children, animals, anything unsanitary,
dangerous, or otherwise disgusting.
What's your favorite target?
Pussy, clit, nipples, thighs… Oh you want me to pick a favorite?
What do you get the most pleasure from in a session?
Power exchange, total trust and surrender. It’s a mutual
thing.
What is the biggest benefit for you of being a dominant?
I’m not sure there is a benefit as such. I’ve been
graced in meeting some very cool people. I’m just glad that
I’m out enough to follow my true desires and seek fulfillment.
How important is it that dominants have some sort of personal
experience or perspective of what they ask of their submissive
to endure/perform?
I am a firm believer that every Dom should understand the kiss
of his own whip. You need to understand what you’re doing.
What is your definition of the power exchange between dom and
sub?
Total trust, mutual acceptance, the true definition of love
When serious anger occurs directly related to something pertaining
to your submissive, how do you feel it should be dealt with?
We talk. I never use play techniques or BDSM tools in a punitive
fashion.
How important is negotiation for you?
Mutual satisfaction and total acceptance. Symbiotic.
How did you enter the BDSM world? OR ... What personal experience(s)
led you to the BDSM lifestyle?
I was born into it.
What do you feel sets you and your practice/pursuit of the BDSM
lifestyle apart from others?
I try not to compare myself to others. I am who I am.
How would you approach (WOULD you approach?) or deal with a vanilla
acquaintance who was curious about BDSM and What It Is That We
Do?
With a pair of handcuffs(Ha Ha)
What do you feel is the single, most important thing for any new
dominant to learn (or observe, explore, share) when entering into
this lifestyle? Can you give us an example of one of your first
learning experiences?
Okay well I’m not sure about the whole lifestyle business
or what that means...I am what I was born to be, this is not a
form of rebellion for me, its not about shock value, I’m
not overly public but if someone asked Id tell them...I don’t
know when I entered into this "lifestyle", I’m
just acting upon my natural desires.
As far as what’s most important - be safe. And for Gods
sake be open minded, listen and learn. Be respectful and don’t
be an asshole, it gives the rest of us a bad name.
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